Relationship. What Relationship?
If we check Wikipedia and look for the word 'relationship', here's what we get:
Let's just pay attention to the intimate relationship.
"Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience. Humans have a universal need to belong and to love which is satisfied when an intimate relationship is formed.[2] Intimate relationships consist of the people that we are attracted to, whom we like and love, romantic and sexual relationships, and those whom we marry and provide and receive emotional and personal support from.[1] Intimate relationships provide people with a social network of people that provide strong emotional attachments and fulfill our universal needs of belonging and the need to be cared for."
---> whom we like, love, romantic and sexual relationships.
There's none that mention you should be the first, the second and the third. There's no mentioning about religion issues or else.
In real life, do you take it when you happen to be the second person? I mean, when you're in touch with someone, and knowing that person is belong to someone else (i.e married or having a relationship), would you still go for it. Then what do you have? A relationship in a relationship?
Where does this guy put you in his life? After his girlfriend? After his family? After his job? After his friends? Then, what's the point? Where's that priority? What's the point of staying? Even if this guy says that he likes you, he loves spending time with you, and he admire you of making him laugh, then what? Does he choose to be with you? A simple mind-set, if he wants to be with you, he'll be with you. If he's just using you, use him back. Be smart ladies.
Second. Religion has always been a problem for my friends. Sometimes heart wins over the head. Stupid or what? If you know it would be a problem, why bother to let the feeling grows? I know it's easier said then done, but you know it's a problem before, then why bother now? Go with it, live with it. Swallow.
We have too much drama in life. Why relationships should be another drama?
Can life be that simple, "i like you, you like me. let's get together."
No drama.
Relationship or relationships may refer to:
- In mathematics and statistics:
- In database design:
Let's just pay attention to the intimate relationship.
"Intimate relationships play a central role in the overall human experience. Humans have a universal need to belong and to love which is satisfied when an intimate relationship is formed.[2] Intimate relationships consist of the people that we are attracted to, whom we like and love, romantic and sexual relationships, and those whom we marry and provide and receive emotional and personal support from.[1] Intimate relationships provide people with a social network of people that provide strong emotional attachments and fulfill our universal needs of belonging and the need to be cared for."
---> whom we like, love, romantic and sexual relationships.
There's none that mention you should be the first, the second and the third. There's no mentioning about religion issues or else.
In real life, do you take it when you happen to be the second person? I mean, when you're in touch with someone, and knowing that person is belong to someone else (i.e married or having a relationship), would you still go for it. Then what do you have? A relationship in a relationship?
Where does this guy put you in his life? After his girlfriend? After his family? After his job? After his friends? Then, what's the point? Where's that priority? What's the point of staying? Even if this guy says that he likes you, he loves spending time with you, and he admire you of making him laugh, then what? Does he choose to be with you? A simple mind-set, if he wants to be with you, he'll be with you. If he's just using you, use him back. Be smart ladies.
Second. Religion has always been a problem for my friends. Sometimes heart wins over the head. Stupid or what? If you know it would be a problem, why bother to let the feeling grows? I know it's easier said then done, but you know it's a problem before, then why bother now? Go with it, live with it. Swallow.
We have too much drama in life. Why relationships should be another drama?
Can life be that simple, "i like you, you like me. let's get together."
No drama.
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